Day 10 — The last time I snooped into something I wasn’t supposed to (like a medicine cabinet in a friend’s bathroom), I found… Hatemail. I don’t snoop around other people’s cabinets or drawers but I do occasionally hack into my boyfriend’s mail/phone to make sure he’s still truthful to me. I know, I’m obsessive…

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Carra Lucia

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10th Apr 2012

30 days of blogging, honesty, mail

30 Days of Blogging Honesty – Day 10

Day 10 — The last time I snooped into something I wasn’t supposed to (like a medicine cabinet in a friend’s bathroom), I found…

Hatemail. I don’t snoop around other people’s cabinets or drawers but I do occasionally hack into my boyfriend’s mail/phone to make sure he’s still truthful to me. I know, I’m obsessive and it’s illegal. But the stuff I found made me not wanna look anymore.

His ex had been sending really nasty messages about me and him, then love messages (saying she still loves him and she wants him back), then hateful ones again (that he’s a prick and he should go and die). I checked his replies to her and I was well satisfied with the cold shoulder I saw in there so I stopped prying. When he’s ready to talk to me about these he’ll do it but now he avoids the matter completely.

32 responses to “30 Days of Blogging Honesty – Day 10”

koisevilla

Apr 16

i guess… They might even do it but in an awful awkward way lol

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theferkel

Apr 15

Being a woman definitely has its advantages, I can’t see a man pulling off the same move successfully!

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koisevilla

Apr 15

HAHHAHAHAHA priceless…definite WIN.. K.O.

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theferkel

Apr 15

me! I grabbed my bf’s leg under the table and slid my hand purposely on the inside of his tigh 😀

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koisevilla

Apr 15

HAHAHA that’s funny! who won?

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theferkel

Apr 15

Any jealous woman would feel threathened by any other woman. I remember I had a stare contest with a chick that gave my BF more ice-cream on the cone than she gave me! War’s on Bieetch!

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koisevilla

Apr 15

ikr? 😀 She feels threatened ..methinks…

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theferkel

Apr 15

the SOB!

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koisevilla

Apr 15

mine is different… my EX’s wife is the one checking out my FB page and all that jazz LOL I don’t even talk to my lying-cheating-got-a-girl-pregnant-and-married-her XBF since like FOREVER :))

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Sofia

Apr 14

Hahahaha I love that!!! 🙂

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terriblethinker

Apr 13

prayers. it must be so difficult. but sometimes time is the best healer.

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theferkel

Apr 13

😀 I’m a scorpio thus a gealous woman by definition. I love my man and I only want my man to be MINE and sharing is out of the question. I told him when we started dating.
“If I catch you cheating, she will become a panda and you will be single again.”
“Panda?” he asked
“Panda – two black circles around the eyes.”

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theferkel

Apr 13

Thank you!

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Sofia

Apr 13

Glad you got validation and even more glad you stopped. Once you start is hard to stop.

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terriblethinker

Apr 12

well that is what honest is. good luck with the stalking ex gf. i hope things get sorted out

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AnonymousBurn

Apr 12

Eeek! What’s worse is that in a moment these words from a person you don’t know or don’t like can fill you with dread. It’s an awful shock.

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TemptingSweets99

Apr 11

OMG! I’m scared of you! LOL!

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theferkel

Apr 11

So true! I wonder what it was that tipped him off that she was not exactly sane? The constant bitching or maybe the 1AM calls?

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Cherlyn

Apr 11

Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, and monogomy is a term lost on some people lol sometimes we just get a rotten one.

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bluefiadiarries

Apr 11

They are ex for a reason.

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theferkel

Apr 11

I’ve setup a keylogger on his machine 🙂 and for his phone, I looked at where his fingers were going when he unlocked it so I knew what the password was 😀

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TemptingSweets99

Apr 11

That ex sounds psycho. Umm…. So, how does one hack into a mail/phone. I’d like to learn. 😀

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prysmatique

Apr 11

There’s always a fine line there, but I’m glad you stopped reading too much into it when you saw his cool replies ❤ Nasty exes are a pain, but he loves you enough to stay with you so don't worry about it!

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Sleep and Salami

Apr 11

I bet you’ll be good of it too!

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theferkel

Apr 11

She has no pride as a woman. If I would have been shown the door I would have walked right through it and never looked back. If a guy does not love me there is certainly one out there who does so no point being somebody’s mat.

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theferkel

Apr 11

I am taking a course in ass-kicking. I might find it useful in the future 🙂

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theferkel

Apr 11

Maybe I should have gone with an uglier guy. He wouldn’t have had an ex then 🙂

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veehcirra

Apr 10

Your boyfriend seems to hold you very dear to his heart…that ex will eventually tire of being so desperate…hopefully

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Sleep and Salami

Apr 10

It’s nice to know you found evidence of his faithfulness, thank goodness, but eventually the nutty ex is going to have to be dealt with. Good luck!

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Cherlyn

Apr 10

I can understand that. My boyfriend gets random calls for his ex. I guess I dont snoop with his stuff because I have a good trust threshold with him, but no one likes to hear that sort of thing happening so I can understand why you’d be looking.

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theferkel

Apr 10

I hope you’re right – I don’t like stuff happening behind my back, no-one does I suppose

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Tom Baker

Apr 10

He sounds like a gentleman but there will come a time when he will need to stand up for you or to her.

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